Desperation is so smelly, you can smell it from miles away. Singleness can be so much fun, it can also be depressing and have you asking deep kweshions about life. When it does get to the depressing stage, never make the mistake of showing it to the world. You don't wanna be that girl that dated and flirted with everyone before you "eventually" get married. Stop holaring at brother when you are sad, stop writing on their walls or commenting on his every status to make yourself seen.
You need to know your worth. You need to re-evaluate your life and do some stock take and know your worth. When women know their worth, they are powerful but most importantly they don't settle for anything else than what they KNOW they deserve. You have to know the kind of man who is worth your time and effort. Life's loneliness and biological clock cannot have you taking any guy because he's a "genuinly good guy". Remember that the decision you make now is one you will live with for the rest of your life and that's a long time, unless ofcourse you get a divorce.
Again, have a meeting with yourself and think about the kind of man you deserve and don't feel bad or guilty about it. Also, think about the kind of woman you are that deserves to be loved and chosen by the kind of man you are thinking of. Better yourself while you wait for that man, there are amazing men out there. There really are.
Five things I think every woman should do to better themselves before marriage:
1. Have an intimate relationship with GOD
2. Get a qualification
3. Learn to cook GOOD good
4. Get a stable job
5. Have financial discipline
If marriage comes before any or all of these things then hey sis, we'll come and get down at your wedding but if you aren't married then girl get your miiiiiiiiiind right and become an asset to yourself and everyone around you. Become an all-rounder. Become the kind of woman your husband will be proud to introduce in EVERY sphere of his life.
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